Saturday, April 25, 2015

Upgrade...!!

Sometimes, I feel our life is a book already written with great details and we are just enacting those written words to action like an actor. Such a scripted action happened with me on a recent trip abroad. It’s called upgrade, on an international flight from economy class to business class.  

While passing through the aisles of business class I often used to envy the level of comfort people are subject to by paying few quids extra.  A lady hangs around them taking glasses of juice and Champagne, their luggage is managed, their coats are hanged in special cub boards and these people get the level of attention as if they are kings/queens of ancient ages. Once the flight is fully boarded the curtains are closed to the economy class onlookers as if a Bollywood performance is about to begin anytime.

Today, for a change I was on the other side of that curtain, courtesy some people who preferred the comfort of their home than to spend thousands on travelling. As I write this blog, I am still thinking why she (lady at the boarding gate) chose me to be treated as Cleopatra for that day. Was it my Fabindia kurata charm, which encouraged her to follow “Be Indian, Upgrade an Indian” policy or was it a Yash Chopra dream come true.   

What ever be the reason, but it truly was a different experience for me, taking the pride of travelling business class in an International flight. As I settled in the Business class seat, initial challenge was to find the bits and pieces of items to be used. I was trying to figure out, where was the remote, where was the head phone. I noticed two tiny bottles of water arranged nicely below the arm.

While I was figuring it out these things, came the icing on cake – “the business class travel kit”. Have you every observed how kids react when you give a new toy to them. They try to explore everything about it. I ended up doing the same funny acts of checking the toothpaste, toothbrush, an eye cover and hey a special pair of socks. I unfortunately, was in the middle seat and both gentlemen next to me were looking at me from side eyes with a grin, but I was too excited to worry about that then.  

As we took off the next attempt was to understand how this chair moves. Aah interesting, it can move in any direction to provide you the comfort of your bed at home. There were buttons for every action to slide it forward, slide backward, slide below you waist and comfort your bum. Am sure this would have happened with you many times in economy class that you have your food on the tray table and the person in front comforts his chair and the tray hits your stomach. Ouch!!..but tada this doesn't happen in business class as the seat doesn't slide back to hit the person behind you. 

The odyssey of excitement doesn't end here. As they start to serve food, a white shining cloth is first placed on your tray table as in a 5 star restaurant and its decorated with a nice goblet of Champagne (my apple juice looked just the same). Then comes an array of food options served in a dish along with nicely wrapped shining cutlery. As these are cleanly served with a white gloves. As a courtesy they ask you how is the food and thankfully don’t expect a tip in return.

As I reflect back on that day, I just feel that it could be just another business class trip for people who pay for it. But for me, it came as a beautiful surprise and I would cherish those funny acts of mine for long.

Such incidents & wonderful surprises always make me look forward to life and make this wonder writer wonder. What might happen next...!!

Friday, April 24, 2015

An invisible thread...

A Sleepless night, sometimes leads to a blog and yesterday was one such night.

"Hello"....I noticed a small window popped up while I was in the middle of a financial calculation for my project. I clicked on the chat window reluctantly said "hi" and continued while the window kept blinking. Another 15 minutes while I was engrossed in the excel, that window had messages on messages as the person seemed desperate...and the last sentence read...u there??

That is how the first interaction started with a person I haven't known for all my life. From initial courteous interactions, to more friendly discussions to curious questions began the journey of knowing someone and building an unnamed relationship. Hours and hours of talking, discussions on hundreds and thousands of topics bridged the gap from a stranger to an acquaintance to a friend. The episodes of conversations, fun time together continued for a few months and with passage of time as life got busy conversations started to reduce to mono labels and now we rarely get to talk.  

My IT infected mind relates this phenomenon to a software development life cycle. When we start any projects we have everyone coming together with great passion enthusiasm. We make it a part of our life, but with time, with conflicts with issues the passion start to fade. Soon it becomes a part of our routine and we associate it as life. Towards the end it literally feels to close it as soon as possible and move on.

But one thing which remains is, an invisible thread.

I call it a thread of memories, of good and bad times we spent together. We often recall the incidents, situations, some special comments of those people who made us laugh or even cry at some point. With time, we even forget the names but do remember what that relationship gave us and how it developed us to what we are today.

If I reflect back to years I have lived, I have made loads of friends, acquaintances in life. Some came as school friends, neighbor hood friends, gym friends, most of them my work colleagues and many I just met in travel for a few hours or minutes.

I read in a book once, that we often get close to people who had played some part in our life in our last birth. We meet them again, because, there was something left incomplete in the past life which we have to conclude in this life. So whenever I meet someone I often think about the role he/she would have played in my life.

If I could keep a log of the how we met, what we shared and how we parted ways, I will have an autobiography of thousands of pages. But some names, some people get registered in this book of life as key highlights and others are forgotten.

But as they say, it’s a small world and it often happens that we meet them someday, somewhere and just say..."hey look at you, you are just the same". And the journey continues….

Dedicated to my long forgotten friends and just to let them know, that you are remembered always :-))